Only about one month comes the Spring Festival.It seems that everything has not been prepared well yet.The end of this term is passing so quickly,nfl jerseys cheap, even can't sure whether my classes are enough for revisions.That's OK.With its nature,no much expectation on students’ scores.It only depends on their pays.How I hope that I can spend the coming teaching years like this,to finish two classes is main task of a day.Such a school is really good for every teacher,without any competations or pressure.Especially for me,who hates pressure,but still loves teaching so much till now.However,for those students,they must know how important study is,and try their best to do well.It's certain that many are losing themselves because of having no a good study atmosphere.Too many can't make clear of their ways,cheap
hats, just to follow bad ones.In other word,it's a problem of the whole society.
Today is foggy,hope there won't be snow in this month.It's a warm winter,no idea whether it's a good year.Yeah,the earth gets warmer,the emotion gets less.
Son has kept studying very late these days,his and I have also stayed up late.Hard study-time comes,he has to persist at least five years.Although he seems to study very hard,I do't feel satisfied with his such a state.Because he does't put all his heart into it.That's OK,anyway,I am sure that he will never give up study,thinking of this,maybe I should be in content.He has a strong dream to go to a good college.This half year,he has had a very happy term,which is mine,too.Son dropped in last exams,cheap
nfl jerseys, wish him good marks in the coming ones.Remember to give him a warm hug,no.matter what the result will be.
Wednesday, April 26, 2017
I make it,at last.
Once watching such a book,and doubt whether I can insist on finishing it.Although I have ever read other senior English grammar book,I hardly remember much.No matter how much I can get from this,cheap nfl
hats, feeling so happy.Fighting in study！
The next is the college grammar,actually the same contents.Do more exercises,each time of doing that brings me joys.I of the moment won't care too much about how much I can learn from the book,instead,the feeling of reading is good.Reading fills my boring free time at work.It lets noise far away from me.It makes me feel myself not be a person with blind eyes following others.
I can't wait to read the next book,because it is a long time since it was borrowed from the town reading room.Son helped me to renew it again.I should finish it as quickly as I can,replica oakley sunglasses, to take some time to do it.Although I always hate reading at home.But I must this time!
The next is the college grammar,actually the same contents.Do more exercises,each time of doing that brings me joys.I of the moment won't care too much about how much I can learn from the book,instead,the feeling of reading is good.Reading fills my boring free time at work.It lets noise far away from me.It makes me feel myself not be a person with blind eyes following others.
I can't wait to read the next book,because it is a long time since it was borrowed from the town reading room.Son helped me to renew it again.I should finish it as quickly as I can,replica oakley sunglasses, to take some time to do it.Although I always hate reading at home.But I must this time!
Study is a long hard way
To the exact,most people start their study without knowing why,so
do I.I only got the imformation from dad's eyes that study was so important.He even never told me why.Merely,cheap jerseys, I was a sensible girl,and unknew whether there was anything else more important than study.Father was good at study,and then I thought nobody could do better than him.How important to a child the examples in a family are.Even if nobody in the family asked about sister's and my homework or study at usual,we both studied carefully.I feared to get poor scores.Each time of giving father the score report to make him write “parents' comment”with a nervous heart,I couldn't see his eyes.
I don't know how son thinks about me,once bad scores,very afraid to tell me,too?He has told me why he studies hard.He says he wants to enter a good college,then a good job which he loves,earn much money to buy a big house.Of course,next to marry,have a happy family,yeah,only one kid,too.
It seems plans,in fact,the most common thoughts,but the happiest life.He is fighting,watching his back,cheap Oakley sunglasses, study is really a long hard way to go which is towards dreams and happiness.
do I.I only got the imformation from dad's eyes that study was so important.He even never told me why.Merely,cheap jerseys, I was a sensible girl,and unknew whether there was anything else more important than study.Father was good at study,and then I thought nobody could do better than him.How important to a child the examples in a family are.Even if nobody in the family asked about sister's and my homework or study at usual,we both studied carefully.I feared to get poor scores.Each time of giving father the score report to make him write “parents' comment”with a nervous heart,I couldn't see his eyes.
I don't know how son thinks about me,once bad scores,very afraid to tell me,too?He has told me why he studies hard.He says he wants to enter a good college,then a good job which he loves,earn much money to buy a big house.Of course,next to marry,have a happy family,yeah,only one kid,too.
It seems plans,in fact,the most common thoughts,but the happiest life.He is fighting,watching his back,cheap Oakley sunglasses, study is really a long hard way to go which is towards dreams and happiness.
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
You know the best only if you have experienced the worst
I used to hear my Aussie colleagues complain early in the morning: “Sorry, I am late today, it was horrible. I was stuck in the middle of the traffic getting nowhere, how could it be getting so bad?” “And I’ve got a ticket for a little bit speeding at school zone, cheap
mlb hats, I hated driving in those rich areas, it’s so easy to get fine.”
“I wouldn’t complain.” I said. “Compared to Shanghai, it is much much better here in Melbourne. You know, in Shanghai, sometimes in peak hours, walking might be faster than driving a car.”
“Oh, well, but when I was a teenager, it was peace and quiet, so easy to drive.” One Aussie lady continued.
I see. We came from the difficult background. I might have experienced the worst traffic jam in Shanghai, so I always feel happy when it’s getting better. Poor Aussies, as they are used to the relaxing way of driving, they can’t stand any disorder.
The time I lived on campus, winter was like heaven to me, nice and warm with heaters on 8 months a year. I was shocked when I heard one Malaysian girl’s voice: “Emma, it’s freezing cold here, I’ve got sore throat. I miss Malaysia very much. I can’t stand the winter no more.” “Really, are you kidding me? I couldn’t feel winter at all in Melbourne. Hey, if you feel cold, why you don’t wear socks? It is winter, girl. ”
When I was a child, there’s no heater at all in Shanghai, the temperature inside was exactly the same as outside- minus 0. It usually took a while for the ice melting. My bed was as cold as iron, sometimes, cheap oakley sunglasses, the whole night I couldn’t feel warm with my feet straight forward. Even in the classroom, I couldn’t concentrate on study as my feet were next to frozen.
That make sense, the Malaysia girl came from a tropical country. Obviously, all the disadvantages have turned out to be benefits to me, I am becoming stronger than someone who are used to the comfortable lifestyle.
Eventually after I broke the chain, left that state-run company which drove me mental. Since then, I enjoyed the freedom so much, I didn’t have to care about other people whether they were happy about you study or not. It had nothing to do with them at all. Therefore, I treasured the time I had without wasting one more minute.
On the other hand, In Shanghai, the majority of my younger classmates who were pushed hard by their parents, once they went to the Uni, nobody was really interested in study. Then they spent most time chatting, wondering, wow, how much freedom they’ve got in the Uni without the monitoring under their parents. They might not realize the Uni time wasted until one day they no longer have enough time study whatever they like as employees who work in the office.
If it is so easy for you to have what you want, even if you are in paradise, you probably wouldn’t appreciate the best moment for you’ve got. Only if someone has experienced the hardship, then they will enjoy the most than anyone else.
Therefore, it is really not necessarily for anyone to complain or jealous of someone who has already gained what you are looking for. Even if you are born of poor or with competitive disadvantages , cheap nfl jerseys, you can still be a lucky one, as you have experienced the worst situation, as long as you try very hard keep moving on, you will feel much happier than any people who are on the same boat as you by getting things so easily without trying their efforts. Trust me, this is the truth.
“I wouldn’t complain.” I said. “Compared to Shanghai, it is much much better here in Melbourne. You know, in Shanghai, sometimes in peak hours, walking might be faster than driving a car.”
“Oh, well, but when I was a teenager, it was peace and quiet, so easy to drive.” One Aussie lady continued.
I see. We came from the difficult background. I might have experienced the worst traffic jam in Shanghai, so I always feel happy when it’s getting better. Poor Aussies, as they are used to the relaxing way of driving, they can’t stand any disorder.
The time I lived on campus, winter was like heaven to me, nice and warm with heaters on 8 months a year. I was shocked when I heard one Malaysian girl’s voice: “Emma, it’s freezing cold here, I’ve got sore throat. I miss Malaysia very much. I can’t stand the winter no more.” “Really, are you kidding me? I couldn’t feel winter at all in Melbourne. Hey, if you feel cold, why you don’t wear socks? It is winter, girl. ”
When I was a child, there’s no heater at all in Shanghai, the temperature inside was exactly the same as outside- minus 0. It usually took a while for the ice melting. My bed was as cold as iron, sometimes, cheap oakley sunglasses, the whole night I couldn’t feel warm with my feet straight forward. Even in the classroom, I couldn’t concentrate on study as my feet were next to frozen.
That make sense, the Malaysia girl came from a tropical country. Obviously, all the disadvantages have turned out to be benefits to me, I am becoming stronger than someone who are used to the comfortable lifestyle.
Eventually after I broke the chain, left that state-run company which drove me mental. Since then, I enjoyed the freedom so much, I didn’t have to care about other people whether they were happy about you study or not. It had nothing to do with them at all. Therefore, I treasured the time I had without wasting one more minute.
On the other hand, In Shanghai, the majority of my younger classmates who were pushed hard by their parents, once they went to the Uni, nobody was really interested in study. Then they spent most time chatting, wondering, wow, how much freedom they’ve got in the Uni without the monitoring under their parents. They might not realize the Uni time wasted until one day they no longer have enough time study whatever they like as employees who work in the office.
If it is so easy for you to have what you want, even if you are in paradise, you probably wouldn’t appreciate the best moment for you’ve got. Only if someone has experienced the hardship, then they will enjoy the most than anyone else.
Therefore, it is really not necessarily for anyone to complain or jealous of someone who has already gained what you are looking for. Even if you are born of poor or with competitive disadvantages , cheap nfl jerseys, you can still be a lucky one, as you have experienced the worst situation, as long as you try very hard keep moving on, you will feel much happier than any people who are on the same boat as you by getting things so easily without trying their efforts. Trust me, this is the truth.
Long Time No See
Hey, guys. Long time no see. Since I post the last blog, I have disappeared for a long time. Then what did I do these months?
I went to Shenyang as an intern for about two weeks in April. And after back from Shenyang, wholesale jerseys, I was always busy at my graduation design until a week ago. Yes, I will graduate from university in ten days.
Actually I wrote a blog about two months ago. But when I clicked the "post" button, I was reminded that the Internet was unavailable. Then I found the WIFI was disconnected. And I clicked "back" to get the last website. But what I got is nothing. The blog went to blank. After that, I really have not much time to write anything. So my second blog didn't come out until today.
I went to Shenyang as an intern for about two weeks in April. And after back from Shenyang, wholesale jerseys, I was always busy at my graduation design until a week ago. Yes, I will graduate from university in ten days.
Actually I wrote a blog about two months ago. But when I clicked the "post" button, I was reminded that the Internet was unavailable. Then I found the WIFI was disconnected. And I clicked "back" to get the last website. But what I got is nothing. The blog went to blank. After that, I really have not much time to write anything. So my second blog didn't come out until today.
From waxberry to tradition
Between the rainy days and sudden cloudy weather, it surely torments people. Meanwhile, it is at the harvest season of waxberry. My colleague sent me some and at the same time I received another small basket of those dark red berries from a friend. When I was called from family there purchased some too, cheap jerseys, I felt a must to ferment them into drink again since we cannot eat all. The good news is that I have several glass jars which used to contain berry wine before.
My schoolmate has phoned me again to pick berries. He explains to me if I am not available he just delivers me some. I appreciate his hospitality and agree to visit him when I am free. The relation we have been keeping all the time ever since we made in the university. School life is always full of good memory and the friendship among students usually is worth of owning.
The convenience of scientific development helps us find it easier to build up communication. And we even do not write letters because a phone call or an email solves most problems. No matter how advanced the technology would be like, cheap snapback hats, it cannot replace the basic emotional contact since we are not robots.
Most ones now meet the problem that they are not able to write once they try to write down something. That kind of character amnesia happens. Another problem is most of us feel hard to write well. We are amused by our awkward script due to unfamiliarity of handwriting. We rarely write by hand nowadays. I still remember in primary school I was taught to write in brush and won a second prize in a calligraphy competition. I hardly see schools advocating of brush writing, instead, only declaration of how many students has been enrolled to those famous universities.
As a matter of fact, many of good traditions should be inherited. Thus, I’d rather like reading paper material books. The goodness of traditional reading does not harm too much for eyes and also I enjoy reading as well as the great smell of paper. I also have cultivated the habit of keeping notes with my pen in ink. Whenever I open a notebook, fake oakley sunglasses, I recall myself on those written characters in papers.
So a visit in person will be more meaningful not only has it fulfilled “Long time no see”, but also realized the joyfulness of picking.
My schoolmate has phoned me again to pick berries. He explains to me if I am not available he just delivers me some. I appreciate his hospitality and agree to visit him when I am free. The relation we have been keeping all the time ever since we made in the university. School life is always full of good memory and the friendship among students usually is worth of owning.
The convenience of scientific development helps us find it easier to build up communication. And we even do not write letters because a phone call or an email solves most problems. No matter how advanced the technology would be like, cheap snapback hats, it cannot replace the basic emotional contact since we are not robots.
Most ones now meet the problem that they are not able to write once they try to write down something. That kind of character amnesia happens. Another problem is most of us feel hard to write well. We are amused by our awkward script due to unfamiliarity of handwriting. We rarely write by hand nowadays. I still remember in primary school I was taught to write in brush and won a second prize in a calligraphy competition. I hardly see schools advocating of brush writing, instead, only declaration of how many students has been enrolled to those famous universities.
As a matter of fact, many of good traditions should be inherited. Thus, I’d rather like reading paper material books. The goodness of traditional reading does not harm too much for eyes and also I enjoy reading as well as the great smell of paper. I also have cultivated the habit of keeping notes with my pen in ink. Whenever I open a notebook, fake oakley sunglasses, I recall myself on those written characters in papers.
So a visit in person will be more meaningful not only has it fulfilled “Long time no see”, but also realized the joyfulness of picking.
Sunday, April 16, 2017
a film impression
It's widely said that a Korean zombie movie was quite horrible and splendid.Several days ago, I finally got a chance to watch this film, Train to Busan. As said in the title, cheap snapback hats, it mainly described a trip to Busan. Unfortunately, a zombie got on the train and spread its disease at an amazing speed by biting humans. Under this circumstance, a group of people had to fight together to survive. The action scenes were exciting, but the weakness of human nature exposed in the film was the very point. Different people acted in different ways. The reasons really set people thinking.
I am most touched by a big uncle. Ordinary-looking as he was, he always appeared brave, kind and helpful. Faced with danger, he was willing to charge at the head in front of others to force through five carriages of zombies to a safer place. He put his wife in the first place and protected her all the time until the last minute of his life. The moment he sacrificed, I burst into tears, begging him not to die, cheap oakleys, only to find he was dead forever. Another character executive, poles apart from the nice uncle, tried to live at all costs. He pushed his subordinate to zombies as human flesh baffle so he could run. He cruelly kept other survivors including that uncle out from the safe carriage for his own safety. At that time, my anger was beyond description. I wanted nothing but his retribution. I believe the death of the executive is in favor with the general public.
To be honest, I was frightened by zombies at certain moments, but more astonished to know how bad a person can be. After the film played its last scene, I was drowned in endless sadness and anger with the ending song haunting me. I wonder what I would do in similar situations. Frankly speaking, maybe I couldn't care too much for strangers as the big uncle did. I would do small favors for others within my power. Also, I am ashamed to say that it's only under the circumstance that my life isn't threatened. But not until the real disaster comes, I never know my behavior. At least I wouldn't follow the executive's action that push others to death and seek for own safety. I absolutely disagree with that.Humans are born selfish somehow, cheap jerseys, and especially when it comes to personal profits. But to what degree can we tolerate?
We need to know that surviving isn't equal to living. There are things more meaningful than just living.
I am most touched by a big uncle. Ordinary-looking as he was, he always appeared brave, kind and helpful. Faced with danger, he was willing to charge at the head in front of others to force through five carriages of zombies to a safer place. He put his wife in the first place and protected her all the time until the last minute of his life. The moment he sacrificed, I burst into tears, begging him not to die, cheap oakleys, only to find he was dead forever. Another character executive, poles apart from the nice uncle, tried to live at all costs. He pushed his subordinate to zombies as human flesh baffle so he could run. He cruelly kept other survivors including that uncle out from the safe carriage for his own safety. At that time, my anger was beyond description. I wanted nothing but his retribution. I believe the death of the executive is in favor with the general public.
To be honest, I was frightened by zombies at certain moments, but more astonished to know how bad a person can be. After the film played its last scene, I was drowned in endless sadness and anger with the ending song haunting me. I wonder what I would do in similar situations. Frankly speaking, maybe I couldn't care too much for strangers as the big uncle did. I would do small favors for others within my power. Also, I am ashamed to say that it's only under the circumstance that my life isn't threatened. But not until the real disaster comes, I never know my behavior. At least I wouldn't follow the executive's action that push others to death and seek for own safety. I absolutely disagree with that.Humans are born selfish somehow, cheap jerseys, and especially when it comes to personal profits. But to what degree can we tolerate?
We need to know that surviving isn't equal to living. There are things more meaningful than just living.
Live In Big Cities
When it comes to the decision of living in big city or small town, it is a really tough question for the young people, especially for those who have graduated from college. Therefore,wholesale jerseys, they face the dilemma of choosing a place where they will start their career and lives.
Some people like to live in big cities because prosperities of modern cities appeal to them. However, some other people prefer to live in the town as a result of the peaceful and comfortable environment. They are not willing to compete with top people or maybe they do not want to live under too much pressure.
As far as I am concerned, youth is for us to strive. Just as a celebrity said, youth is not a matter of age, it is a matter of emotions. There is in every human being's heart the lure of wonders. We should seek our dreams with enthusiasm when we are young. So there are no better choices for us to do so than big cities where there are abundant opportunities for young people to exploit their potential. Though the working condition is arduous, we can still find a sense of achievement by fighting with multifarious challenges. And if we can weather the initial difficulties,cheap fake oakleys, what we embrace will be valuable in our lives. We are capable to solve many other problems in the future.
I believe all the efforts and sweat will be rewarded if we seize the precious opportunities.
Some people like to live in big cities because prosperities of modern cities appeal to them. However, some other people prefer to live in the town as a result of the peaceful and comfortable environment. They are not willing to compete with top people or maybe they do not want to live under too much pressure.
As far as I am concerned, youth is for us to strive. Just as a celebrity said, youth is not a matter of age, it is a matter of emotions. There is in every human being's heart the lure of wonders. We should seek our dreams with enthusiasm when we are young. So there are no better choices for us to do so than big cities where there are abundant opportunities for young people to exploit their potential. Though the working condition is arduous, we can still find a sense of achievement by fighting with multifarious challenges. And if we can weather the initial difficulties,cheap fake oakleys, what we embrace will be valuable in our lives. We are capable to solve many other problems in the future.
I believe all the efforts and sweat will be rewarded if we seize the precious opportunities.
Something About Education
On Thursday afternoon, we had an interesting and impressive oral English class. Our foreign teacher, Bart, taught us sing an English song. He taught us sentence by sentence,cheap nfl jerseys, playing the guitar. That song is about education. Before we started learning the song, we watched its mv. In this mv, many students are queuing up in lines and march at the same pace. Strict as the teacher is, the students are in strong fear and covered with masks. They are so numb that they cannot do anything but follow the teacher's orders. What they are performing tallys with the lyrics in this song.
We don't need no education. We don't need no thought control. No dark sarcasm in the classroom. Teachers leave them kids alone. All in all it's just another brick in the wall. All in all you're just another brick in the wall.
Exactly, we need more imagination. We need more space and time to think about everything. It is high time that we paid more attention to finding our own voice. Achieving our own developments is of great significance. On the one hand, teachers play a vital role in our life. Teaching is their business. On the other hand,cheap hats, we must take responsibility to ourselves. If the teacher is not good, we must also insist on ourselves and keep balance on ourselves and the teacher's orders. In a word, just as the words in this song, hey ,teacher , leave them kids alone.
We don't need no education. We don't need no thought control. No dark sarcasm in the classroom. Teachers leave them kids alone. All in all it's just another brick in the wall. All in all you're just another brick in the wall.
Exactly, we need more imagination. We need more space and time to think about everything. It is high time that we paid more attention to finding our own voice. Achieving our own developments is of great significance. On the one hand, teachers play a vital role in our life. Teaching is their business. On the other hand,cheap hats, we must take responsibility to ourselves. If the teacher is not good, we must also insist on ourselves and keep balance on ourselves and the teacher's orders. In a word, just as the words in this song, hey ,teacher , leave them kids alone.
Thursday, April 13, 2017
you can be the one who you admire most
You can be the one you want
There’s no doubt that you can be the one who you admire most.
I was very happy when some girls told me: “Wow, I admire you very much, you can stand out for being yourself with self-confidence and determination."
Yes, I am pretty sure that you also can be the one who you want to be.
a low self-esteem teenager
When I was a teenager, with low self-esteem, I thought I was an ugly duckling because I was not a good student in my class.
I used to hate studying so much as I could never recite exactly the same sentences from textbooks as what teachers requested me to do every day.
Then I completely stuck on that point for many years, even my Dad was so ashamed to attend my parents’ meeting.
Obviously, I was not on the good students' list.
Then I dropped out of the school at an early age,cheap oakleys, meanwhile, I realized that I could never ever return back to school even I really really wanna to in a couple of years' time. How miserable !!! Stupid school policy!!!
I admired SanMao in my 20s
In my 20s, I admired one popular author from TaiWan, her name is: SanMao.
One reason I liked her as she’s also dropped school early, and then she’s pursuing her dream as a writer.
Her creative life being overseas was so interesting and amazing, which touched my heart so much.
Then I told myself I wish one day I could have the same lifestyle as SanMao for writing down books regarding traveling and life experience from communicating with friends all over the world. How fascinating !!
An impossible dream
But that was totally impossible for a girl like me from mainland China, studying overseas was not popular at all in the early of 1990s.
If Aussies you know the history of China, then you will understand that it was such a big dream at that time, it is just like Aussies you decide to move to the Mars, which is very unrealistic.
But I still held a dream as there’s a light ahead: my Aunt was in the USA.
Taught myself English
The first thing, I decided to learn English so that I could take TOEFL test.
My English was almost zero as my previous education was crap.
Even I didn’t know how to pronounce English properly because I used to write down Chinese under English sentences at school.
Therefore, I bought an English pronunciation book and tape record. I taught myself how to pronounce properly by looking up the dictionary for each vocabulary.
To start with, I could never move on as I failed over and over and over.
But I didn’t give up because there’s a dream ahead, if I stopped learning English, my life would be so meaningless.
Achieved the dream in my 30s
Eventually, I achieved the dream in my 30s- to be an overseas student.
Now, my dream has almost come true, I have experienced exciting life which was just like what SanMao wrote in her books.
From this year, I am writing my own stories, though I don’t have as many readers as her, but eventually I got started.
Now it’s my turn, someone else is admiring my lifestyle.
One thing I can confirm you: yes, you can, please never ever give up; you can be the one you like.
It is possible as long as you believe you can and start doing it.
learn how to dance-salsa and buchata
In my 20s, at dance parties, I was the shy one who only sat and watched people dancing, though I admired them so much, but I thought I was stupid who could never dance very well.
In my 40s, I enrolled Salsa dance lessons, I went to the classes once or twice a week and attended dance parties twice a month.
Now, I have very much self-confidence for dancing with handsome guys, even I can teach those younger ones who are at beginner level.
swim with kids
Again, in Australia, most people can swim very well, I have never got a chance to learn when I was a child.
Therefore, I joined beginner level swimming classes for adults,cheap jerseys, I felt a bit awkward when I had classes with little kids in the same swimming pool, but never mind, who cares.
We can start learning new things at any age.
Now, some young people even admire me as they can only do breaststroke, however, I can do freestyle as well.
maintain a good body shape
After Uni, I was becoming lazy and I was shocked as I suddenly gained 4KGs by being a couch potato, lying on the sofa, eating potato chips and watching TV.
But I do admire ladies who can keep fit with nice body shape in their 40s, therefore, I made a decision and then I attended Gym for 4 years.
Now I am doing walking, jogging and running when summer’s coming.
In order to maintain a certain weight, I am focusing on a healthy lifestyle. I cook own meals so that I can have fresh vegetables most of the day, which I won’t eat much if I go to a restaurant in Australia and normally I drink plenty of water instead of soft drink( no, I don’t drink at all.)
An ideal me
At the beginning of this year, I had a lesson: design a life you love.
I was asked: what was the ideal you?
I told myself : I wanna to be elegant, looks nice.
I used to never care about shoes and bags, only spent money carelessly for buying heaps of clothes, then there was no enough room to store them.
Now, I realize that good quality leather shoes and leather bags are essential for matching up clothes, which will make me look much better.
Therefore, I bought fewer clothes, with a certain amount of money, I bought Italy-made shoes and bags, a very good one can last forever, and it will never out of date.
So actually, I don’t have to buy each year.
I don’t jealous someone who is driving a BMW as I don’t drive at all, so that's not what I want.
But I do spoil myself for buying 1 luxury thing each year,eg, a designed Italy-made leather bag , a wallet or a belt, just for making myself look good and feel good.
Now in my 40s, I have more confidence than I was in my 20s.
When I open up wechat nearby for writing purpose, there are more than 300 requests for friends, though I have accepted a very limited number as I don’t like people who only care about my profile photo.
However, nice photos do matter as it is your first impression to others and it represents your lifestyle, what kind of people you are.
Even in real life, I am very proud that I could be still sought after in my 40s, it is not like years ago what people in China called mature age ladies: “Old Cabbage Skin”.
No, I don’t feel like in that way, so rude and discouraging for women.
yes, you can be a better version of yourself
Therefore, how to build up yourself to be a marvelous one, it doesn’t matter who you are at the moment, it is more related to what kind of person you want to be in the future.
Please think about what you really really want, then write down and make a plan, get yourself started.
In 10 years’ time, you will be amazed that you could be so attractive for being a better version than who you are now.
I don’t know who I admire at the moment, but I do attract by some writers who get more followers than me, so I will keep writing and reading until one day, the magic happens
.
Please never ever underestimate yourself, you can be the one you like.
There’s no doubt that you can be the one who you admire most.
I was very happy when some girls told me: “Wow, I admire you very much, you can stand out for being yourself with self-confidence and determination."
Yes, I am pretty sure that you also can be the one who you want to be.
a low self-esteem teenager
When I was a teenager, with low self-esteem, I thought I was an ugly duckling because I was not a good student in my class.
I used to hate studying so much as I could never recite exactly the same sentences from textbooks as what teachers requested me to do every day.
Then I completely stuck on that point for many years, even my Dad was so ashamed to attend my parents’ meeting.
Obviously, I was not on the good students' list.
Then I dropped out of the school at an early age,cheap oakleys, meanwhile, I realized that I could never ever return back to school even I really really wanna to in a couple of years' time. How miserable !!! Stupid school policy!!!
I admired SanMao in my 20s
In my 20s, I admired one popular author from TaiWan, her name is: SanMao.
One reason I liked her as she’s also dropped school early, and then she’s pursuing her dream as a writer.
Her creative life being overseas was so interesting and amazing, which touched my heart so much.
Then I told myself I wish one day I could have the same lifestyle as SanMao for writing down books regarding traveling and life experience from communicating with friends all over the world. How fascinating !!
An impossible dream
But that was totally impossible for a girl like me from mainland China, studying overseas was not popular at all in the early of 1990s.
If Aussies you know the history of China, then you will understand that it was such a big dream at that time, it is just like Aussies you decide to move to the Mars, which is very unrealistic.
But I still held a dream as there’s a light ahead: my Aunt was in the USA.
Taught myself English
The first thing, I decided to learn English so that I could take TOEFL test.
My English was almost zero as my previous education was crap.
Even I didn’t know how to pronounce English properly because I used to write down Chinese under English sentences at school.
Therefore, I bought an English pronunciation book and tape record. I taught myself how to pronounce properly by looking up the dictionary for each vocabulary.
To start with, I could never move on as I failed over and over and over.
But I didn’t give up because there’s a dream ahead, if I stopped learning English, my life would be so meaningless.
Achieved the dream in my 30s
Eventually, I achieved the dream in my 30s- to be an overseas student.
Now, my dream has almost come true, I have experienced exciting life which was just like what SanMao wrote in her books.
From this year, I am writing my own stories, though I don’t have as many readers as her, but eventually I got started.
Now it’s my turn, someone else is admiring my lifestyle.
One thing I can confirm you: yes, you can, please never ever give up; you can be the one you like.
It is possible as long as you believe you can and start doing it.
learn how to dance-salsa and buchata
In my 20s, at dance parties, I was the shy one who only sat and watched people dancing, though I admired them so much, but I thought I was stupid who could never dance very well.
In my 40s, I enrolled Salsa dance lessons, I went to the classes once or twice a week and attended dance parties twice a month.
Now, I have very much self-confidence for dancing with handsome guys, even I can teach those younger ones who are at beginner level.
swim with kids
Again, in Australia, most people can swim very well, I have never got a chance to learn when I was a child.
Therefore, I joined beginner level swimming classes for adults,cheap jerseys, I felt a bit awkward when I had classes with little kids in the same swimming pool, but never mind, who cares.
We can start learning new things at any age.
Now, some young people even admire me as they can only do breaststroke, however, I can do freestyle as well.
maintain a good body shape
After Uni, I was becoming lazy and I was shocked as I suddenly gained 4KGs by being a couch potato, lying on the sofa, eating potato chips and watching TV.
But I do admire ladies who can keep fit with nice body shape in their 40s, therefore, I made a decision and then I attended Gym for 4 years.
Now I am doing walking, jogging and running when summer’s coming.
In order to maintain a certain weight, I am focusing on a healthy lifestyle. I cook own meals so that I can have fresh vegetables most of the day, which I won’t eat much if I go to a restaurant in Australia and normally I drink plenty of water instead of soft drink( no, I don’t drink at all.)
An ideal me
At the beginning of this year, I had a lesson: design a life you love.
I was asked: what was the ideal you?
I told myself : I wanna to be elegant, looks nice.
I used to never care about shoes and bags, only spent money carelessly for buying heaps of clothes, then there was no enough room to store them.
Now, I realize that good quality leather shoes and leather bags are essential for matching up clothes, which will make me look much better.
Therefore, I bought fewer clothes, with a certain amount of money, I bought Italy-made shoes and bags, a very good one can last forever, and it will never out of date.
So actually, I don’t have to buy each year.
I don’t jealous someone who is driving a BMW as I don’t drive at all, so that's not what I want.
But I do spoil myself for buying 1 luxury thing each year,eg, a designed Italy-made leather bag , a wallet or a belt, just for making myself look good and feel good.
Now in my 40s, I have more confidence than I was in my 20s.
When I open up wechat nearby for writing purpose, there are more than 300 requests for friends, though I have accepted a very limited number as I don’t like people who only care about my profile photo.
However, nice photos do matter as it is your first impression to others and it represents your lifestyle, what kind of people you are.
Even in real life, I am very proud that I could be still sought after in my 40s, it is not like years ago what people in China called mature age ladies: “Old Cabbage Skin”.
No, I don’t feel like in that way, so rude and discouraging for women.
yes, you can be a better version of yourself
Therefore, how to build up yourself to be a marvelous one, it doesn’t matter who you are at the moment, it is more related to what kind of person you want to be in the future.
Please think about what you really really want, then write down and make a plan, get yourself started.
In 10 years’ time, you will be amazed that you could be so attractive for being a better version than who you are now.
I don’t know who I admire at the moment, but I do attract by some writers who get more followers than me, so I will keep writing and reading until one day, the magic happens
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Please never ever underestimate yourself, you can be the one you like.
What my next six years will be?
From the year 2010, six years have passed, to today I am who I am as used to be. If there is one thing that can describe my change, that is I become open much than before, I am doing much the things I like than before. This is well, but I didn't accomplish my task which I set six years ago. As a result, I need to change the plan,wholesale jerseys, I added a next 20 years plan in this plan, I am not sure this time, I will make it or not? But I do know that the time is precious, I must take action as soon as I can, so comes the quesiton first, what my next six years will be?
In my plan I will take two years to study accounting, because my English level is enough to fix simple problem, so I will cut down time, transfer the time into accounting study. And to get a certificate is my goal. Then I will learn marketing, I will be aware of the sectors of a company how it runs. You may ask me why I do? I just wish to have a company of my own, and it will take me to where I want.
I must make friends with experts, usually they are rich, so I must find out what they like,cheap fake oakleys, to make friends with them might be easy, or not, anyway I should try my best to be their friends. I think this is quite important, as the rich always has an sharpe insight to money. And I need to find out where they are, and what they like, and what's the conections behind me and them. So, I will build a relationship with the right person, I will figure out how to do to attract their attention and how to be their friends.
There will be wave one by one, and it's time to seize them now. My next six years will be the years of I that I study and make money and establish relationship with the rich, so let me ask myself everyday, how will I make my tomorrow better, how will I help others,cheap snapback hats, How will I be value to the society and how I make the world better.
In my plan I will take two years to study accounting, because my English level is enough to fix simple problem, so I will cut down time, transfer the time into accounting study. And to get a certificate is my goal. Then I will learn marketing, I will be aware of the sectors of a company how it runs. You may ask me why I do? I just wish to have a company of my own, and it will take me to where I want.
I must make friends with experts, usually they are rich, so I must find out what they like,cheap fake oakleys, to make friends with them might be easy, or not, anyway I should try my best to be their friends. I think this is quite important, as the rich always has an sharpe insight to money. And I need to find out where they are, and what they like, and what's the conections behind me and them. So, I will build a relationship with the right person, I will figure out how to do to attract their attention and how to be their friends.
There will be wave one by one, and it's time to seize them now. My next six years will be the years of I that I study and make money and establish relationship with the rich, so let me ask myself everyday, how will I make my tomorrow better, how will I help others,cheap snapback hats, How will I be value to the society and how I make the world better.
Bye
You don't deliver pizza anymore. You've become a real man.
I've been running away from all the guesses and speculations that you are gonna be the one who died under Negan's bat,cheap nfl jerseys, though it is what happened in the comic. And I believe there're so many people who refuse to accept your death and wish for a miracle no matter what. But the day finally came, and we lost one of our favorite characters.
There's actually no particular reason why I like you so much, or I just don't know since when you've become irreplaceable in this series. People, all the audiences, we fighted with you, we sought for hope with you. I still remember my first glimpse of you in the first episode —— it was definitely a surprise, then you started to show your courage, smartness, kindness... step by step, you've become a man that totally can be relied on, and of course, you are a perfect partner for Maggie.
I know there's no magic in this show, so you won't come back to life like John Snow. So many people have been gone for good, cheap hats, but this is the one that hurts the most. You deserve a better ending. You should be one of the team members who fight with Rick till the very last moment. Rick needs you. Maggie needs you. Your baby needs you. The audiences need you.
I've been running away from all the guesses and speculations that you are gonna be the one who died under Negan's bat,cheap nfl jerseys, though it is what happened in the comic. And I believe there're so many people who refuse to accept your death and wish for a miracle no matter what. But the day finally came, and we lost one of our favorite characters.
There's actually no particular reason why I like you so much, or I just don't know since when you've become irreplaceable in this series. People, all the audiences, we fighted with you, we sought for hope with you. I still remember my first glimpse of you in the first episode —— it was definitely a surprise, then you started to show your courage, smartness, kindness... step by step, you've become a man that totally can be relied on, and of course, you are a perfect partner for Maggie.
I know there's no magic in this show, so you won't come back to life like John Snow. So many people have been gone for good, cheap hats, but this is the one that hurts the most. You deserve a better ending. You should be one of the team members who fight with Rick till the very last moment. Rick needs you. Maggie needs you. Your baby needs you. The audiences need you.
The nightmare
Japs broke into my house!
I suddenly opened my eyes, grabbed my clothes, locked the door and hid in my wardrobe. I heard the noise they made. They were breaking everything they could, tables,nfl jerseys cheap, chairs, windows--. They were laughing like devils. I was so scared that my body shook unconsciously. The Japs would search the second floor soon enough and found me very soon!
Many terrible scenes flashed through my mind. Tears leaped from my eyes
and I even couldn't breathe. "What can I do?" I asked myself. "I have to calm down. Father and mother would help me. " I took a deep breath and tried my best to release myself. And gradually my body didn't shake. Suddenly, I remembered there was a rope in my room and I could go outside by it. Without delay, I found the rope and tied one end of it at a firm place and then I began to slip. When I touched the earth, I really relieved.
"BA GA YA LU." A Jap was running towards me! A cold sweat broke out on the back of my neck and my heart was in my mouth! My brain was blank but my body made the right choice.RUN! I just ran without any direction.I ran across the streets,cheap hats, through the bridges--
"It's time to get up. " My mother came in my room. "Your face is pale, daring, what's the matter" "I did a nightmare." I answered, " because yesterday papa forced me to watch a documentary about Nanjing Massacre."
How I appreciate the peaceful life I have!
I suddenly opened my eyes, grabbed my clothes, locked the door and hid in my wardrobe. I heard the noise they made. They were breaking everything they could, tables,nfl jerseys cheap, chairs, windows--. They were laughing like devils. I was so scared that my body shook unconsciously. The Japs would search the second floor soon enough and found me very soon!
Many terrible scenes flashed through my mind. Tears leaped from my eyes
and I even couldn't breathe. "What can I do?" I asked myself. "I have to calm down. Father and mother would help me. " I took a deep breath and tried my best to release myself. And gradually my body didn't shake. Suddenly, I remembered there was a rope in my room and I could go outside by it. Without delay, I found the rope and tied one end of it at a firm place and then I began to slip. When I touched the earth, I really relieved.
"BA GA YA LU." A Jap was running towards me! A cold sweat broke out on the back of my neck and my heart was in my mouth! My brain was blank but my body made the right choice.RUN! I just ran without any direction.I ran across the streets,cheap hats, through the bridges--
"It's time to get up. " My mother came in my room. "Your face is pale, daring, what's the matter" "I did a nightmare." I answered, " because yesterday papa forced me to watch a documentary about Nanjing Massacre."
How I appreciate the peaceful life I have!
Nanjing's Traffic Situation
As we all know, with the development of modern technology, car is more and more common. Therefore, cheap nfl
hats, there is no doubt that the traffic congestion is becoming more and more a headache for the city governors. What's more, in my mind, Nanjing as a big city, it has the following traffic problems.
First, in Nanjing, road structure is not reasonable. There are more main roads than road branch. So the traffic is very crowded in some roads. Second, inadequate construction of public traffic is a big problem. Third, it's difficult to park because there are many motor vehicles. Fourth, the transport system is not perfect and citizens' security consciousness needs to be improved.
In views of these traffic problems, I think the following measures can be taken.
Firstly. The governors can design the city roads rationally and pour attention into constructing the road branch. Thereafter, they can expedite the construction of public traffic. In addition, to learn from other cities, such as Beijing and Shanghai. They can use technology to improve the usage rate of parking lots. Finally, they should improve citizens' security consciousness to reduce illegalsituations.
In a word, if the governors can take some reasonable measures,replica oakley sunglasses, I think the traffic situation will be better.
First, in Nanjing, road structure is not reasonable. There are more main roads than road branch. So the traffic is very crowded in some roads. Second, inadequate construction of public traffic is a big problem. Third, it's difficult to park because there are many motor vehicles. Fourth, the transport system is not perfect and citizens' security consciousness needs to be improved.
In views of these traffic problems, I think the following measures can be taken.
Firstly. The governors can design the city roads rationally and pour attention into constructing the road branch. Thereafter, they can expedite the construction of public traffic. In addition, to learn from other cities, such as Beijing and Shanghai. They can use technology to improve the usage rate of parking lots. Finally, they should improve citizens' security consciousness to reduce illegalsituations.
In a word, if the governors can take some reasonable measures,replica oakley sunglasses, I think the traffic situation will be better.
What parents do is more important than what they say
My attention was usually drawn to big news when I was watching the news on the internet. Today, however,nfl jerseys china, a piece of small news caught my sight. In the news, a little boy threw a milk box out of the car when his father was driving the car. What will you do if your child does the same thing as this boy? Will you directly drive the car away as if you didn’t see it? Or, perhaps, you even won’t notice these small things. But what this father had done was the wisest choice. He immediately pulled over the car, got out of it and picked the box up. The video didn’t show us what the father said to his child after he got into the car. But I hold the view that what he had done was much better than what he said.
Someone once said that parents are the first and best teachers of their children. I partly agree with him. Before going to school, children virtually spend all their time with their parents. Thus, parents can have a huge influence on them, both good and bad. Hardly can you imagine a father preaching at his child all the time in everyday life. Children are too young to understand what you mean. On the contrary, teaching them by doing things in person is much effective because children are good at imitating their parents’ behavior, though they might not know why. But this can affect them deeply and this effect lasts for their whole life without a doubt. Obviously, cheap Oakley sunglasses, this father set a good example for his child and other parents.
Someone once said that parents are the first and best teachers of their children. I partly agree with him. Before going to school, children virtually spend all their time with their parents. Thus, parents can have a huge influence on them, both good and bad. Hardly can you imagine a father preaching at his child all the time in everyday life. Children are too young to understand what you mean. On the contrary, teaching them by doing things in person is much effective because children are good at imitating their parents’ behavior, though they might not know why. But this can affect them deeply and this effect lasts for their whole life without a doubt. Obviously, cheap Oakley sunglasses, this father set a good example for his child and other parents.
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